A Responsible Person.

We all have our own ways of thinking.
Everyone sees this world in a different way, in an amazing way.
They have their own theory about everything.

The way we react and treat people makes us good or bad.

when someone hurts us, we see that person as a bad person.
Yes, there are some people around us who try to hurt others for their own selfish reasons.
There are few who try to do something good but somehow which indirectly hurt people.

Everyone who hurts you is not a bad person. maybe they don't hurt you on purpose, maybe they don't even know that you are been hurt by their actions.
In pain and sadness, we all feel like, we need someone to understand us.
                                When we realize that no one is going to understand us, we want to be alone, in that situation we hurt people because we got hurt.
We should understand that everyone in this world facing different types of problems in their own life.
We can not hurt anyone, because we feel hurt.



" Be careful with your words. they can only be forgiven,
can not be forgotten."


You expect someone to come and understand you, in the meantime, you hurt others like broken glass. It's not fair.
You have to understand even your mother can not feel the pain you are suffering.
She can only imagine the pain you are going through because she loves you more than anything.
                            You have to be strong and be gentle even if you feel hurt.
That's how "a strong and responsible person should be."
It took me a very long time to understand. How to be a gentleman and a strong person at the same time.
I always try to feel other's feelings, by imagining my self in their position.
Whatever I do or say to others I always imagine my self in their position, like if someone treats me the way I treat them, how would I feel ? I realized everyone deserved to treated well, from that time I decided to be a gentleman and kind person.

"never expect anything in return if you think you are kind heart."

Everyone has their own problems and pain in this world.we can do nothing because we can not possibly know their condition.
All we can do is, be kind and humble to everyone.
Try not to hurt others, by our reactions.

" If you can be anything,
be kind,
be gentle,
be responsible,
be strong."


"Flowers grow back, even after they are stepped on. So will I."


Ethics of my life
Before you speak-    Listen
Before you spend-    Earn
Before you write-     Think
Before you quite-     Try
Before you die-         Live

Things a real man should always have.
Honor,
Family,
Answer,
Integrity,
Responsibility.

Responsibility is not something you born with. It is an awareness of duty you develop in yourself in order to protect the people and things you care about. everything you do create an effect on others that effect makes a reaction and gives you different kind of situation. that situation you may like or may not like it.

Responsibility is a duty or task you have to do.

Every work or things you do or expected to do is your responsibility.

Like in our childhood teachers expected us to do our homework, the homework is a responsibility to us if you take the responsibility seriously and do your homework. You are considered a responsible student. It's your choice to take things seriously and do it like a responsible person. When we act responsibly or do the things we are responsible for doing, we have a positive consequence. A consequence is what happens as a result of our actions. When you are responsible, you have a positive outcome and you get the positive consequence for a job well done. If you are irresponsible, you feel the pain of a negative consequence for a job done poorly or not at all.

Being responsible leads to more trust and freedom because people know they can count on you to do the things you are expected to do. Being responsible can also be a big part in keeping you safe and people who you want to keep safe.


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